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A short thought for a (at least here) rainy Tuesday, from American philosopher and poet, Ralph Waldo Emerson (who has also provided us with an inspiring definition of “success”):
You become what you think about all day long.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 – 1882)
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So succinct, and yet with such a large measure of truth to it, no? We’re all here on SuperForest because we embrace the power of positivity – to shape our worldview and interactions, to shape things to come, and – I think – to shape ourselves.
Anecdotally, I’m sure we can all find some support for Emerson’s statement: a day where everything seems bad, everything has had a negative connotation, seems to be a day when everything will have a negative connotation. Conversely, and joyously, a day when I determine it will be positive seems to shower a deluge of random positive events.
And despite my conviction against all reason that the world does revolve around me (okay, not really, but I recognize in myself a propensity to become self-absorbed and, by extension, take the vagaries of life personally… what can I say, we’re all works in progress;), a rational mind would have trouble believing that the preponderance of negative-upon-negative or positive-upon-positive is the result of the objective turn of events.
Isn’t it more plausible that a day focused on negative things is, if not more likely to result in negative outcomes, at the very least more likely to focus your perception of those events on the negative? AND conversely, that a day where positivity is the focus, more likely to shine a light on positive encounters, events and conclusions?
Positivity builds Positivity – both in ourselves and those we engage with.
I know this, and yet… I’ll admit that a busy day, or a challenging meeting, can throw my focus off track. So, today I decided to try an experiment. One that I like to call “No Positive Too Small”.
Today I decided to broadly catalogue my thoughts and see which I would be happy to “become” in Emerson’s terms. And I’d highly recommend that all of you try the same experiment. You might be surprised at some of the things that bring you happiness.
Some highlights from my notebook:
- gosh, I love coffee. Coffee is marvelous. Okay one more (delicious, fairtrade) coffee!
that’ll be the coffee
- ooh, a shower. And that shampoo that smells nice. And some nudie stretching. Nice!
- hey SuperForest.org!
- Ah, sunshine on the way to work, nice. Thank you cab driver for stopping to let me past. Hey colleagues, I like you! I hope you had a great vacation, I’m glad that you’re back!
- yo, little sister. You rock! And a coffee!

- pretty clouds outside the window and a chat with office-mate about home-grown vegetables. Embracing common ground while trading tips and veg. Yes.
- okay, so this work is difficult… challenging… and I’m really glad that you, as my boss, think that I’m up to stretching myself with this responsibility. Isn’t it great that if we really push to get this out soon, we can feel like we did the best we could for our client?
- wow, that girl looks beautiful in that dress. I should tell her. No, I won’t, that would sound crazy. Ah, whatever “Excuse me, I just wanted to say that your dress really suits you and you look great!”
- mmmm…. what a delicious sandwich. Yes, an effusive thank you at my local sandwich shop is more than in order!

- ooh, a personal email! How exciting. I think I’ll respond rapidly with many typing errors :)
- Wow! I forgot I had that Bowie song on my itunes! Yes, I think I will sing it under[over] my breath at the coffee machine for the rest of the afternoon! [Maybe with some subtle dance moves. Maybe. Okay, definitely.]

- Ah! I’m so glad I have Labyrinth on dvd!
- ooh, look at the rain on the window. I love that sound.
- Hmmm… these wool pants, they’re really comfy.
- flickr, tumblr, flickr, tumblr, yay!
- Hey, look how the sun is starting to set earlier – I can almost feel the autumn creeping up. I can’t wait. Gah, and I just realised that autumn is the opportunity to start knitting hats again!

- hey, SuperForest.org!
- tube newspaper guy, hey, yeah how are ya? yeah, I’m a regular. I feel cool.
- No, but really, these pants are comfy
- Ah, home. How I love my longjohns, my zucchini, calls to Belgium, that leftover lasagne! Little sister, SuperForester Sophie, did I mention that you both rock?!
them’ll be the longjohns
- Oh, new sewing machine (nope, that’s it. I’m afraid the details of my love for learning to use my sewing machine in haphazardly incompetent style will have to remain private;)
So, I’m sort of joking, but not really – of course I had negative thoughts today (tiredeness, tonsilitis [honorable mention goes to my newfound appreciation of what an awesome job my throat usually does, all day every day, many times a day, of swallowing!], work stress), but I found that the act of making a note of the positives as I thought them, however seemingly trivial, really focused me on appreciating them. I’m not exactly proud of this list – I get that most of it seems a little self-centred. But I picked a random day just to see where I got the joy from, so I feel like I can’t judge myself for the results. But I can try to influence myself going forward.
So, SuperForest, I’d like to ask you: What happy thoughts did you have today?
Whatever it was, from comfy pants to a great news story to a particularly tasty sandwich or a shared smile with a fellow commuter, I’d love to hear – remember, there’s No Positive Too Small – Let us know in the comments?
Love, in my badass thermal longjohns of love,
P
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