10 Things I’d Love to Tell My Younger Self

Patricia Volonakis Davis has composed 10 things she’s learnt - about love, life and being a woman –  that she’d like to share with other women in the hopes that it saves them “some precious time”. Maybe the boys can get something out of it too.

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1. You are at least ten times prettier than you think you are.
That holds true no matter how pretty you already think you are! Don’t believe me? Ask your mother/auntie/grannie if she thought she was pretty when she was 20. She’ll say no. Then find a photo of her at that age. See what I mean?

2. The only thing you should be faking is confidence.
If you don’t have it yet, pretend you do. In every new situation, pretend you’re not nervous, pretend you’re not afraid. After a few times doing this, the pretend part disappears.

3. Want to try something new like painting, skiing, running your own business? Go to the library and borrow ten different books on the subject.
Skim through them all, find the ones that have the most vital information and study them. Then see number 2.

4. No matter how old you get, remember what it was like to be a nine-year old girl.

Remember the feeling of freedom. If you’ve already forgotten, do a cartwheel. You can so still do one. Savior that feeling. Wake up with it every day. You’ll stay young until the day you die.

5. In the same vein, cut or potted flowers are never a waste of money.

Because every time we glance at them, they remind us how much beauty there can be in the world.

Click here to read the rest of Patricia’s list.

9 Responses to “10 Things I’d Love to Tell My Younger Self”


  1. 1 Hana

    These are really nice tips. I’m working on the number 2,3,and 4. Very kewl. Thank you!

  2. 2 Altinay

    Very valuable tips!

  3. 3 dominique

    Awesome tips!:)
    I love number four.

  4. 4 April

    Hey everyone.
    I agree. If I were to write to my younger self, I’d definitely tell her to be sillier, learn plenty of skills/hobbies and cartwheel as often as possible.

  5. 5 Vanessa

    Very inspiring…I think I need to work on all of them to tell you the truth. Thanks for this =)

  6. 6 jackson

    Amazing. Dudes especially can learn from this list and apply it to ourselves.

  7. 7 Erin D

    I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!

  8. 8 Patricia V. Davis

    I’m very pleased that you enjoyed my list! Thank you for publishing it!

  9. 9 April

    No problem, Patricia!

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